My Valentine's Day - Awesome!!!!

Friday Night Dinner

Eggplant Bolognese, broccoli and corn and toasted rosemary wheat bread

Honoring those before me - Emmett Till

Emmett Louis "Bobo" Till (July 25, 1941 – August 28, 1955) was an African-American boy who at 14 years old was murdered in Mississippi after reportedly flirting with a white woman. Till was from Chicago, Illinois visiting his relatives in the Mississippi Delta region when he spoke to 21-year-old Carolyn Bryant, the married proprietor of a small grocery store. Several nights later, Bryant's husband Roy and his half-brother J. W. Milam, arrived at Till's great-uncle's house where they took Till, transported him to a barn, beat him and gouged out one of his eyes, before shooting him through the head and disposing of his body in the Tallahatchie River, weighting it with a 70-pound (32 kg) cotton gin fan tied around his neck with barbed wire. His body was discovered and retrieved from the river three days later.


Till was returned to Chicago and his mother, who had raised him mostly by herself, insisted on a public funeral service with an open casket to show the world the brutality of the killing. Tens of thousands attended his funeral or viewed his casket and images of his mutilated body were published in black magazines and newspapers, rallying popular black support and white sympathy across the U.S. Intense scrutiny was brought to bear on the condition of black civil rights in Mississippi, with newspapers around the country critical of the state. Although initially local newspapers and law enforcement officials decried the violence against Till and called for justice, they soon began responding to national criticism by defending Mississippians, which eventually transformed into support for the killers. The trial attracted a vast amount of press attention. Bryant and Milam were acquitted of Till's kidnapping and murder, but a year later, protected by double jeopardy, they admitted to killing him in a magazine interview (in Look Magazine the Article titled  "The Shocking Story of Approved Killing in Mississippi,". Till's murder is noted as one of the leading events that motivated the African-American Civil Rights Movement.

referenced from Wikipedia

Sabbath Sermon in Review

Well this past Sabbath we had Pastor/Chaplain Barry Black to speak.  He is the chaplain to the U.S. Senate.  He had a really good sermon, the title was Surviving as Lambs in Wolf Country, and the points were

1.  Release the power of prayer
2.  Expect trials and difficulties
3.  Travel light
4.  Concentrate on the task
5.  Take care of people's physical needs
6.  Don't let rejection stop you

Week in Review

Well the last 7 actually 8 days have been pretty eventful for me in numerous ways.

First on last Sunday my Master plumber finished putting in a new water line for me.  He had to uproot my plants however he cut a nice line into my parking pad, which all the other plumbers just said they would essentially destroy the parking pad and I would need someone to come and lay me another concrete pad. Thankfully that did not happen and he was able to fill it in nicely. 

I must say the new water line makes all the water outlets in the house work with added pressure.  It is kind of nice.  He finished just in time before the Atlanta snow storm of 2011 hit. 

Patches did not like the snow to much and she especially did not like it when it turned to ice and all fours kept slipping.  Add to that she could not smell where she wanted to use the bathroom.  I had to dig up snow in  two places in the yard for her to relieve herself.  The snow lasted unbearabley till Wednesday. I was home Monday thru Wednesday however I was hard at work.  Nothing like teleworking.  I can appreciate the government 's encouragement of it for its employees, it keeps businesses going, if only more companies had policies in place that would keep them functioning even when employees cannot physically come into work.

While I was essentially home bound I did have a lot of time for introspection.  I came to a conclusion about getting SCRAPS.  I do not want any more of anyone's SCRAPS, I deserve more.  So I finally got rid of what first introduced me to SCRAPS and I feel a weight lifted.  I had my own eye opening experience and I did not need a psychologist to do it if anything he/she would have prolonged my dependence on them before I had my break through.  Oh the wasted years.  FATHER please restore what the Locust has eaten.

Also by Wednesday a good friend was finally able to get out of NY and we got to hang out for the next couple of days.  It was really nice, it was a sweet spot!!!

By Sabbath the roads were clear and I went off to church and home.  Sunday and Monday were dedicated to working on my thesis. I have read every article that I referenced againt to see if I could add anything more and started setting it up to be printed.  I have more data analysis to do, the snow days kept me from meeting with two data analyst.  Initially, I was beginning to feel overwhelmed, but then I remembered no weapon formed against me shall prosper and I started getting thru it with the help of googling SAS codes and the numerous SAS books I have.  I see the end of this tunnel.  Come on Feburary 15th!!!   

Park Edge Atlanta

This morning while all manner of noise was happening outside my door as the plumbers were laying my new water line I decided to go to brunch we a friend.  We visited the Park Edge in Inman Park.  It is in  a location that has been home to numerous restaurants over the past five years including a vegetarian restaurant that I enjoyed.  Well my review of the Park Edge is uhmmmmmm I am looking forward to see what restaurant replaces it.  My friend ordered fish and grits and the grits were hard (as if they had been sitting for while, you  know how grits turn stiff when they sit) and the fish was warm at best.  That was surprising to say the least because we saw people around us continually get their food however we thought well it must be his fish that is holding up delivery of our food.  I only ordered what amounted to was pinto beans, rice and fried eggs with wraps to put it in, I bought it home for my dog Patches. I try to get something different when I got out however this was a major disappointment.   My friend sent his fish and stiff grits back for pancakes.  The menu stated pancakes with strawberries and chocolate chips.  You know how I LOVE strawberries and chocolate imagine my disappointment to learn that they did not have it but submitted the strawberries for blueberries.  I am thinking to myself  stores are still selling strawberries why the substitution ( oh and we got their when they opened they did not run out, they opened not well stocked) Who has ever said I want blueberry and chocolate pancakes does that even sound good. Hence we just got the blueberry pancakes without the chocolate.  They were as good a pancakes  can be, you can not mess them up to much however when you bring  them out with in 2 container that hold about 2 tablespoon of syrup that is cold it kind of turns you off.  We were trying to bare thru it let the semi hot pancakes warm up the syrup.  We had a little and left the rest I did not even bother to  get a to- go container for Patches.  After we talked about it we realized it was worth a little less than we paid for it.  My friend got a groupon of sorts that was $15 for 35 worth of food.  We could not imagine spending more than that  for food that was a little above the local Waffle House.    

The Woes of Maintaining a House

Well for the past week and a half I have had 5 so called plumbers and 1 master plumber come by my house to figure out where the water is coming from that was creating a stream down my driveway.  It actually sickened me everyday to watch it waste down the street consdering there are millions of people in the world that do not have clean water and here I am  wasting water.  Where actually not intentionally initially we/ the plumbers could not figure out where the water was coming from and if it was actually my water or if it was water or sewage.  I had the water tested and it was confirmed that is was clean chlorinated water thus my water.  Once I realized I decided to take it upon myself and cut the water off wtih the the water shut off key during the times I was not using to to minimize on the wasted water.  All of that being said today I officially hired the Master Plumber to come and fix what turned out to be a busted water pipe.  He had determined two things were going to happen he could fix it where the pipe broke seen here

or he would have to replace the line.  Well he was wrapping up and we thought he was finished and that it was just the pipe that he replaced seen here


however upon looking at the meter we realized there was another leak, initially we thought it was in the meter box that was not it then he decided to start digging further up the line and then we found this little spring of water poop up




So you know what that means he will now have to replace the entire line.  He could just fix the two holes but the concern is that once he does that I will be calling him out again in a few weeks to fix another hole so I  have to get a whole new line. He stopped (will finish up Sunday before our little snow storm hits) after we realized that since he took the half the day digging up my tree that facilitated the broken line seen here.  My poor crape myrtle. 




But according to Reggie (the Master Plumber)   trees in your front yard  are a financial hit waiting to happen in terms of their roots wrapping themselves around all the possible lines you have in the ground.  Lesson Learned at a cost of about $2000 and counting!!!!

Year in Review - Happy New Year!!!

Well, how do I capture the year in review. I’ll just start at the beginning.  The year started by ending a relationship that had reached its max.   I have learned a lot through this experience which resulted in us being better friends for it.  He even said to me while we were getting to know each other and reminded me soon after we stopped dating that he was a better friend than boyfriend.  That statement has been oh so true.  That reminds me to listen to what men say, they really do know what they are talking about when they speak about themselves.

This year I bought a bike and have been biking and running regularly.  I had planned to do a triathlon this year that did not happen.  However, I plan to participate in one in June, stay tuned.  I feel accomplished to be biking on a regular and developing a love of running and the resulting figure is a nice bonus! 

Everyone in my family is doing well.  My mom and Luther are great.  They are my example on what I hope my marriage relationship with my husband will one day be.  I will add my brother and his wife to the mix as well.  They are starting off the year going on a three week European cruise, I am so excited for them and look forward to getting postcards from their every stop.  I am happy that my brother has found someone that compliments his personality and truly appreciates the wonderful man he is and that he is able to do the same. 

Patches is doing well she did not have that many ear infections this year.  She has had some skin issues but they would heal if she would only stop licking herself.  I may have to get her a cone for her head to aid her but I hate how it makes her uncomfortable.  We shall see how she does over the next couple of weeks.

I got  a chance to hang out with some of my high school and college friends this year more than normal.  Friends from this era of my life I realize are life friends.  They knew you when you were unsure of yourself, immature, materialistic, obnoxious and still stuck with you and you them.  They are priceless – so shout outs to Joseph, Keondra, Nicole, Symet and Tara.  Extra special mention for Dacia who is my resident relationship counselor.  Thanks for all of your wise advice, I look forward to seeing the end  result – do you all know what that is SMILE!!!!  I learned to appreciate my life friends more as a result of experiences I have had with individuals I realized were not friends at all. 

The new year (2011) will bring a better relationship with God,  the completion of my MPH and I pray a job as an epidemiologist with a great company, doing great work , with dedicated people and awesome compensation.  I am looking to travel more and maybe just maybe. 

Wordless Sabbath Breakfast

San Antonio, Texas

I spent  last week in San Antonio at at Material and Child Health Epidemiology conference.  It was great to be in an intellectual environment ( guess that is why I enjoy school)  with people that are dedicated to their field and have a passion for it.  I did get to visit a little of San Antonio.  My hotel was next to the Alamo so I visited that and the Riverwalk.  Here are some pictures

 I thought this tree was really cool, you see it as you entire the Alamo

Almost Wordless Friday Night Dinner Picture ( a week late)

a Veggie Loaf (not so great), mashed red potatoes, green peas  and wheat rolls

My Holiday Decorations

My holiday decorations consist of the Pottery Barn Reindeer collection which I add to each year after Christmas when it goes on sale plus my discount.  You all know how I like a well decorated table hence why this is my only decorations.  We shall see what I add to the collection after the holiday.  They have not come out with the 2010 chime ornament, it has not been released as of two Sunday's ago when I worked last.  I will check in this Sunday!

Salvador Dali

The first Saturday of each month the High Museum is free for Fulton County residents.  I take advantage of this opportunity every time they have a new exhibit.  And this time the exhibit of note is the Salvador Dali.  Initially, I did not think I would like the exhibit but then as I saw more of his work I began to be more and more impressed.  The print above I found most impressive and unfortunately this image does not capture the complete detail of the picture and it semblance to a human skull.  The exhibit does a good job it if you are in Atlanta or every have the opportunity to see his work please go see it. 

Baldwin Locks

A few years ago when I bought my house I needed to change the locks and I knew I wanted something unique.  So off I went investigating  and I came upon the lock below.  It was kind fo expensive along with the bolt lock that I needed to buy to match the finish and the look I was gonig for and I had to buy two sets one for the front door and one for the back.  Well about a month or so ago the one in the front of the house starting feeling lose.  Initially my stepdad who is a fix it came over and fixed it,  it worked for a while but then it started feeling lose again to the point where the complete handle just fell off the door and that is when I decided  to call Baldwin Locks and see if they can send me the official part to fix it, I was more than willing to pay for it because it would be cheaper than replacing the lock and I really wanted this lock.  They sent me what they thought I explained I needed.  Unfortunatley it was not correct, then I called back and asked for the screws, they sent the wrong screws.  I said to myself there has to be a better way for me to explain what is wrong with my lock, and that is when I decied to take pictures with my beautiful Iphone and I emailed them to Baldwin and two days later I had a whole new lock set.  Kudo to Baldwin not just for the lock but for the awesome customer service.  You have a loyal customer for life!!!

Thanksgiving recap

My Thanksgiving was good. Overall I am thankful for the place I am in my life which has only been accomplished by God's grace. The last few weeks I have been thinking a lot about how I am really in a happy place that has resulted in part because of the amazing family and friends God has put in my life, you all are the best. I am at a one of many sweet spots to come in my life! I felt this picture of Patches says it all!!!

Susan Stamberg Cranberry Relish

Well I made the infamous Susan Stamberg Cranberry Relish tonight.  I have not tasted it I will wait till  tommorow.  However I did want to share a picture of it and provide the link for you to get the history of it.  If you listen to NPR you already know the story. 

Wordless Election Day Tuesday

Breast Cancer Awareness Month

Well it is October and of course if it Breast Cancer Awareness Month and all things Pink.  A few weeks ago I watched a Sunday night football game with a friend (who thought he would never wear pink no matter how much he loved the TaTa's (see below)  but be assured I had him in pink within 7 days (yes I am that good, LOL.  I diegress back to the football game, all the players seemed to have on something pink.  I thought that was very AWARE of the NFL to encourage the players to wear pink in support of breast cancer. 

I did not want the month to past without me highlighting some really cool breast cancer campaign messages ( social marketing is something I enjoy seeing)  put out by the  American Cancer Society and the Komen Foundation.  Here we go;

Great Breast, Great Responsiblity ( my all time favoriate from a few years ago)

Save the TaTa's ( I actually do not like this one so much but it hits a target audience just not me)

I am the cure (sometimes my behavior can prevent disease by taking preventative measures and participating in screening)

Sabbath Lesson Really Sabbath School Lesson for Me

The week ending Friday, October 22nd the Sabbath School lesson was on Friendship highlighting the friendship of David and Jonathen (found in I Samuel 14 - 21).  It is an awesome story of friendship.  The lesson last week made the following statement that has stuck with me "true friendship is a completely voluntary relationship."  That is so simple but was profound to me.  Unlike family, I choose my friends, I choose to call, I choose to spend time with them , I want them in my life.  There was a time in my life where I felt I did not have True Friendship, I can say today God has given me true friendships that embodies John 15:13 "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends."

Friday Night Dinner

It is a tradition in my family at Friday Night Dinner that we play Scrabble.  I am not the best player and can trully say I rarely win, I doubt I have won a game this year.  However thanks the Scrabble App that I added to my Iphone I won this Friday Night.  I decided to share a picture of the winning game!!!